Life on the Road

Well, it’s official - I’ve been kicked out.

I’m trying to think if I’ve ever been kicked out of anything before, and I honestly have to say that I’m pretty sure this is the first time.

WHAT I’ve been kicked out of is The Miami Natural Pregnancy, Birth & Parenting Support Group, an email/real-life social network hosted on Meetup.com.

WHY I’ve been kicked out is because an Obama supporter and/or “Pro-Choice” member of said group got offended by my comments on the group about (against) abortion.

Here’s the request I sent to the group, verbatim, typos and bad grammar included:

[Subject]

Obama Question

[Body]

(See, nice descriptive title so you can just delete it if you don’t care!  LOL)
 
Okay, so I don’t want to start a debate about anything, I’m just asking if anyone has any *documentation* of Obama’s position on something - like from his website, or a quote, etc.  Since this is, in fact, a topic that was a bit of heated debate a while back, I want to be clear that I am not trying to open the can of worms here.  (I’ll go open it on my blog!  LOL)
 
I know he is in favor of “a woman’s right to choose” and his website says he will oppose any consitutional amendment that would overturn Roe v. Wade.
 
But a reliable source told me that he even opposes a prohibition of “partial-birth abortion”. 
 
True?

So it seems to me that I was pretty clear about the fact that I was looking for links and quotes for my blog post.  Do you find that misleading or ambiguous?

Several people on the group posted most of the links and videos that were subsequently placed in my post.  These people, naturally, are NOT the ones who got upset.  Why would they?

But some people who disagree with my views decided that it was a good springboard for getting upset.

One person in particular, who we’ll call Laura, actually started, like, stalking me.  She sent me hateful emails.  She posted hateful things on my Facebook page.  She apparently came and read through pages and pages of a blog that’s not of interest to her, gathering fodder with which to hate me more.  And, of course, she posted a hateful and accusatory post about me on the group.

Laura fanned the flames of the message thread, saying that I had “used” the group for my own personal benefit.  She got a bunch of people who agreed with her political views to read my blog and get offended, then parlayed that into getting them offended by my quoting of items from the group discussion.

She got everyone so riled up that the moderator removed me from the group - and apparently set a flag that prohibits me from rejoining.  All this without asking for my position, allowing me to participate in the discussion Laura was conducting, or even asking if I was willing to apologize.

Not that I have anything to apologize for, you understand.  But if I ran a group, and someone - in my opinion - did something “mean” or “wrong” or made some gaffe, I would first ask them for their side of the story.  If I still felt they were out of line, I would explain that to them, and insist that they apologize if they wished to remain a member of the group.

Had the moderator done that, one could hope that she would have decided a mountain was being made out of a molehill after discussing it with me.

But even if it had ended up with me leaving the group, it would not have been so rude and hurtful.

This is just another example of something we see more and more often as conservative Christians.  It’s amazing how intolerant those who preach “tolerance” and “acceptance” and “non-judgmental attitudes” really are…

Visit Miss Jocelyn’s blog, A Pondering Heart, and you’ll be treated to the thoughts of a mature young Christian woman.

Click the graphic above to go directly to the post with a drawing for a $25 Gift Certificate to Christa Taylor’s modest clothing website.

Please mention that tiffanyblitz referred you when you leave your comment/entry! 

If you live in South Florida, you’ve probably been looking forward to it for a while now - and if not, you don’t know what you’re missing:

Knaus Berry Farm is OPEN!

Wolf is reprising his roll as the Knaus Berry Dough Boy, and still maintaining his Bakery Blog - so you can find out what’s being baked fresh every day.

Up until now, we have deliberately tried to avoid any really controversial subjects… 

 Skimming the limit with our Christian beliefs, naturally, but shying away from anything drastic, and certainly from politics and other such topics.

NO MORE!

Now you’re going to hear it all…  What we really feel from everything about the decline of society, to the election, to…  who knows…

So buckle your seatbelts!

All you have to do is go vote at Squidoo, and the charity you select (from their list) will receive $2 - they’re giving away up to $80,000 between now and October 15th.

Why NOT give $2 to a worthy cause?

I’m supporting La Leche League, but feel free to make your own choice… 

It all started out as a simple transaction at PaperBackSwap. 

Have I mentioned how much I enjoy that site?  We send off the books we’ve read, and get a constant fresh supply coming in - and you even get free credits just for signing up!  (If you check it out, tell ‘em tiffanyblitz sent you)

But anyway, along with the last book I received was an intriguing thing.  Titled “Informal Book Club,” it’s what we used to call a Chain Letter - in a good way.

You remember the deal, right:

• I send a book to the person whose name is first on the list.
• I remove their name, and add my name to the bottom of the list.
• I send the letter and the revised list to six people.
• Before long I have a mailbox full of books!

This is a pretty mild version: You only have to send it to six people (not ten or something), and there are only two names on the “list” (meaning you don’t get the promise of “856 books!” but that you’re more likely to get some before it dies out).

I haven’t committed to it yet…

I think it’s a great idea, and works out to be a good deal no matter how you look at it.

Shipping one book that I no longer want, using Media Mail rates, is cheap and easy.  I’ll get at least some new books from it, and possibly up to 36!  I can read the ones that interst me, and all of them can be swapped for PaperBackSwap credits to get the books I really want.

The letter could just as easily be sent out as an email, saving even the printing and mailing cost and hassle of that part.

But I’m not sure I know six people that would want to participate - at least not well enough to feel right about asking.

Would you like to join the Book-O-Rama?  Just comment or email me (tiffany (at) tiffanyblitz (dot) com) with your email addy, and you’re in! 

Okay, this came to me in email, but I thought I could use the distraction from worrying about hurricanes…

My Nine Names (and I left in the previous few, for additional flavor and entertainment value):

1. YOUR REAL NAME:

Tammy
Karen

Tiffany

2. YOUR GANGSTA NAME: (first 3 letters of real name plus izzle.)
 
Tamizzle
Karizzle

Tifizzle (nah!)

3. YOUR DETECTIVE NAME: (favorite color and favorite animal)
 
Green Dog
Purple Dog

Green Cat (Green Horse?)

4. YOUR SOAP OPERA NAME:( your middle name and street name you live on (or
neighborhood/ township, if it’s a numbered street)

Wilson Tolliver
Denise Mount Hermon

Susan Redland

5. YOUR STAR WARS NAME: (the first 3 letters of your last name, first 2
letters of your first name)
 
Hilta
Dooka

Holti (LOL!)

6. YOUR SUPERHERO/CRIMINAL NAME: (Your 2nd favorite color, and favorite
drink):

Red Sweet Tea
Red Dr. Pepper

Brown Dew (’Mountain Dew’ seems too long there, eh?)

7. YOUR IRAQI NAME: (2nd letter of your first name, 3rd letter of your
last name, 1st letter of your last name, 2nd letter of your moms maiden
name, 3rd letter of your dads name, 1st letter of a siblings first name,
and last letter of your moms first name).

Alhanka
Aodanta

Ilhabtn (huh?)

8. YOUR WITNESS PROTECTION NAME: (parents middle names):

Leveda Elmer 
Louise Eugene

Jeanne Alstrand

9. YOUR GOTH NAME: (black, and the name of one of your pets or favorite pets
name if you don’t have one):

Black Pebbles
Black Heidi

Black Loki (yeah, that’s definately better than Black Pig)

Okay, there’s our fun break for today.  Back to worrying! 

Well, it’s official:  band costs a fortune.  On top of the new clarinet we bought and the ongoing private lessons, there’s the marching season gear, the concert season apparel, AND Nick has to pay hundreds of dollars towards his “fair share” of the band’s expenses - competition fees, transportation, dry cleaning the parade uniforms, guest teachers, etc.  Yikes!

The school year hasn’t even started yet, and we’re already behind the curve on fundraising - so I’m posting this appeal for help.

We have two main avenues open right now:

1.  “Sponsor” Nick by making a direct donation.

Email me for addresses and more information - tiffany (at) tiffanyblitz (dot) com.

• Your check is made payable to the band program
• Your contribution is tax-deductible
• Nick receives credit for 100% of the amount of your dontation

This program is set to end on Friday, August 8th.

2.  Tupperware Fundraising!

View the available products via the Tupperware Fundraiser Catalog online - some are unique items not available through the regular catalog! 

Then just email me [tiffany (at) tiffanyblitz (dot) com] with the item numbers, quantities, shipping address, and payment information.  Or you can send a written order (there’s an order form in the catalog that you can print out) and a check or other payment info.

If you’d really like to see the catalog in person, just email me your address and we’ll send one out.  Of course we’d also be deeply grateful if you’d ask around your office, church, or friends and family, too… 

• Your payment is to Tupperware, so it is not tax deductible
• You receive the terrific Tupperware products, complete with Lifetime Warranty, shipped right to your door
• Nick receives credit for approximately 50% of your purchase
• I will send a small “Thank You” gift for each Tuppeware order of $20 or more
• All Tupperware orders will be entered in a drawing for a special Gift Pack of Tupperware from me!

This program is set to end on Friday, August 15th.

Anything you can do to help is appreciated… 

Welcome to the 134th Carnival of Homeschooling!  I am honored to be hosting the carnival a second time, and I want to extend my hearfelt thanks to the dozens of bloggers who submitted these incredibly interesting, challenging, and diverse posts for your reading pleasure.  So without further ado, let’s get on with the show!

Most people (and especially most homeschooling families) have at least a passing knowledge of the 12 labors that Hercules had to complete for Eurystheus.  I would propose that, as homeschoolers, we face a no less daunting set of tasks.

Hercules’ First Task:  Slay the Nemean lion, which no weapon can harm.

Wow, surely, that’s impossible!  Not to Hercules, who simply used the strengths he knew he possessed.  Often, being the best teacher requires us to do some hard work on ourselves first, to gain that perspective.

christinemoers suggests that homeschooling - indeed, parenting in general - requires this kind of tough introspection. Be sure to read What are you afraid of? posted at welcome to my brain . net.

Karen M Gibson suggests that we need to look at our deepest beliefs and motivations for our choices in Your Child Wants to Attend School – Now What? at Leaping From the Box.

Rachel Davis advises that we think about what “schooling” itself really mean - or should mean! - with Why Homeschooling isn’t Lacking in Education! posted at Holy Hillbilly Creations Blog-Where Fashion meets Modesty!.

Evie Maddox takes a look at our scheduling choices in Why Homeschool in Summer? posted at Stay At Home Child.

Dianne M. Buxton discusses How To Find Emotional Intelligence and Positive Thinking In the Ballet World [Ed. note: or anywhere!] at Ballet Shoes and Pointe Shoes.

Cristina encourages us to learn to let go, in Pushing Buttons posted at Home Spun Juggling.

ChristineMM challenges us to take a hard look at our standards, in Controversial Article About Homeschooler’s Abilities On My Mind posted at The Thinking Mother.

Hercules’ Second Task:  Slay the hydra.

The trouble with a hydra?  You cut off a head, and it just grows right back!  It’s more than one person can do!  Even Hercules called upon his nephew to help out with this task, cauterizing after each of his chops.  Sometimes we do need to reach out, and make use of other resources available to us, and other people’s strengths.

Carol Topp, CPA suggests that we band together to find stength as a coop, in The Homeschool Socialization Problem Solved posted at HomeschoolCPA - Homeschool Blogger.

Alasandra wants to help recognize and validate fellow homeschoolers! Check out The Graphics Winner posted at Alasandra’s Homeschool Blog Awards.

Need a pat on the back for your thrifty schooling choice?  Check out Back to School Shopping: The Homeschool Way from Penelope at The Cafe at the END of the Universe.

Kim Hutmacher talk about using the author to add a dimension to literature, in Making the Author Connection posted at Works in Progress.

David Cassell warns about the current problem with a GED Scam, at selectcoursesblog.com.

A couple of little math boosters from denise at Let’s Play Math!: Free Multiplication Bingo Game and the Crazy 4 Math Contest.

Need a unit study, Matey? Well then ye best hurry along to Little Blue School so’z Lydia can give ye a Treasure Island Homeschool Seminar: Literary Lesson Plans and Nautical Worksheets.

Want to know more about the brain? WAY more? Alvaro Fernandez presents Learning & the Brain: Resources for Educators posted at Sharp Brains.

Hercules’ Third Task:  Capture alive the stag with the horns of gold, sacred to Artemis.

As homeschoolers we learn that the most precious gifts are worth whatever time and effort they cost.  Hercules could have killed the deer easily, and soon - instead he had to follow it around for an entire year waiting for the moment to make the capture.

Thomas J. West advises musicians to “BE PATIENT!” in Music Practice Tips #2: Don’t Exceed Your Brain’s Speed Limit posted at Thomas J. West Music.

Silvia describes her 8 year old learning patience in Flying Success! posted at Po Moyemu–In My Opinion.

Hercules’ Fourth Task:  Capture an enormous boar.

Hey, this is number four in this vein already.  Hercules is an old hand, and the task is no big deal, right?  It’s the same with homeschooling, really.  At some point we’re all new at each thing we attempt - from homeschooling at all, to different curriculums, to teaching a new subject or age group.  But after a while you earn your stripes, and being to feel like you know what you’re doing.  (At least sometimes!)  And the veterans can share their wisdom with those who come after…

Lessa Scherrer aka Princess Mom presents Advice for Newbie Gifted Homeschoolers posted at Help! My Kids Are Smarter than Me!. 

Lori shares her experiences with newbies in What I Wish I Had Known at The Simple Life at Home.

14 year veteran Jena offers us Advice for First Year Homeschoolers, from Yarns of the Heart.

Katherine gives her review of a great resource for the preschool set: Kumon Workbooks, at No fighting, no biting!

Susan Gaissert advises letting young readers graze! Check out No Syllabus, No Problem posted at The Expanding Life.

Two terrific posts about kids learning to read from The Life Without School Blog: Laureen describes writing Upside Down and Backwards, and Jena offers her advice in Teaching a Child How to Read.

Hercules’ Fifth Task:  Clean the Augean stables.

What can I say, everyone knows that there’s always lots of, um, manure to deal with.

Military homeschoolers? Think layers and layers of it! Why Homeschool points to a great resource on the topic in Are you a military homeschooler.

Not so military? How about Government’s latest? Beverly’s Homeschooling Blog (About.com) wonders if the latest goings on there will have California Homeschool ISPs changing names?.

And a little dose of politics from Susan Ryan with Continuation of The Nerve and Isn’t there a law?? posted at Corn and Oil.

Indiana Jane’s Notebook and SpunkyHomeschool both discuss some of the religious controversies that are boiling within the homeschooling community in Ruminating on homeschooling, and Conventional Wisdom, respectively.

Hercules’ Sixth Task:  Drive away the multitude of Stymphalian birds.

One bird is nice, three birds can be lovely and musical.  A swarm of anything, though, is a problem.  And sometimes it really is the little things that make or break a situation.

NerdMom beautifully address an issue near and dear to my heart in The First Key to Homeschooling and Not Losing It over at Nerd Family.

Hercules’ Seventh Task:  Capture the “beautiful and savage” bull that Poseidon gave to Minos, King of Crete.

The tale concludes that Hercules “mastered” the bull, and took it back in a boat.  One of the things homeschoolers often celebrate is our freedom to master things “beautiful and savage” which are spurned by the public school system.

Teresa Wymore talks about the value of great literature (and don’t miss her insightful expose on public school teaching!) in harry potter and homeschool posted at Flesh & Spirit.

Erica Burgan presents Field Trip to the San Diego Zoo! [Ed. note: Need I say more, here?] posted at The Sojourner.

And speaking of the public school system, enjoy Kathy’s review of the book Schooled posted at Homeschoolbuzz.com Reviews.

Hercules’ Eighth Task:  Get the man-eating mares from from Diomedes, King of Thrace.

Let’s take a lesson from the idea that good ol’ Herc might have done this one differently.  Maybe sometimes you can do the most good by working with the system…

Barbara Frank tells us There is Hope with the story of an amazing High School student.

Hercules’ Ninth Task:  Get the girdle of Hippolyta, Queen of the Amazons.

Hercules teaches us an important lesson here.  Sometimes, all it takes to get what you want is to ask for it.  (Yes, I know his task doesn’t end that simply)

Hercules’ Tenth Task:  Get the cattle of Geryoh, a monster with three bodies.

Sometimes even the most arduous tasks have wonderful and unlooked-for benefits.  During this task, Hercules set the Pillars of Hercules in place.

Miss Amanda has some fabulous gifts posted in The Perfect Gifts for the Graduated SuperAngel at The Daily Planet. 

Studying Ancient History? Bored? Not likely if you listen to Mrs. C on Trojan Horse Craft posted at Homeschool and Etc..

Hercules’ Eleveth Task:  Bring back the golden apples of Hesperides.

How you feel about this task depends somewhat on a moral judgement - Hercules succeeded by tricking Atlas.  Ethics, morality, values…  It’s a big part of why many of us keep our kids home!

Living By Learning shares some insight about A Game Ethics Lesson from The Karate Kid at On Living By Learning.

Hercules’ Twelfth Task:  Capture Cerebrus alive.  And take him back!

When Hercules successfully brought Cerebrus back, Eurystheus wisely decided that he didn’t want it and ordered Hercules to take it back.  Clearly, the moral of this story is, “Be careful what you ask for - you just might get it.”

Such was my request to allow me to host the carnival this week.  Arrangements were made six months ago, when I hosted the Leaving a Legacy edition back in January.  Who could know that this week I would be layed low by medical problems, and even spend a day in the ER?  But in true heroic fashion… er, with the baby in one arm and the three-year-old climbing up my back…  We’re done! 

Thank you for reading…  Of course, please let me know if you find any errors or broken links!

Please take a moment to post a link to the carnival on your blog, as well as adding it to any social bookmarking sites you use (the “Share This” link, below, will make it easy for most of them!) — help spread the word about homeschooling, and the carnival, and send some traffic to all these terrific bloggers who took the time to share their lives with us.

Don’t forget to send in your post for next week’s carnival, as well, hosted at Consent Of The Governed!  Just click on over to the easy submision form at Blog Carnival anytime before Monday at 6pm Pacific.

Since this is already all put together, I’m just going to give it to you, as something important to be aware of: 

AMA Supports Proposed Legislation to Make Home Births Illegal

ABC News reported on July 11. 2008 that the “American Medical Association has agreed to support proposed legislation that, some physicians say, could make make having a planned birth in one’s home difficult, to virtually impossible.”  Presently their is no legislation but the AMA is backing what is called “Resolution 205″ which is a request to support the American College of Obstetricians and Gynecologists’ (ACOG) position that home births are not safe.

American College of Obstetricians and Gynecologists (ACOG) spokesperson Gregory Phillips, stated clearly, the ACOG position, “We are against home births, period.”  He continued in the ABC story by stating, “Women who give birth outside of a clinical setting risk putting themselves and their newborns at risk.”

In opposition to this stand the American College of Nurse-Midwives has come out with a strong statement in support of planned home births. Jennifer Block, author of “Pushed: The Painful Truth About Childbirth and Modern Maternity Care, who also writes a column for the LA Times stated in her columns that in Britain they routinely ask expecting mothers if they would like to have their babies at home instead of in the hospital.  In her column Block noted that a hand-out is given to expecting mothers from Britain’s National Health Service that says, “There is no evidence to support the common assertion that home birth is a less safe option for women experiencing uncomplicated pregnancies.”

Block also noted in her column that last year a joint statement was issued by the Royal College of Obstetricians and Gynecologists and the Royal College of Midwives that said, “There is no reason why home birth should not be offered to women at low risk of complications, and it may confer considerable benefits for them and their families.”

Ms. Block concludes her article by noting that she believes this entire issue is nothing more than a turf war by physicians not wanting to give up control. “The AMA’s statement calls for legislation that could be used against women who choose home birth, possibly resulting in criminal child-abuse or neglect charges. The group says this is about safety, but with no credible research to back up its claim, this argument falls flat.”

The various articles noted that the reaction by the American College of Obstetricians and Gynecologists’ (ACOG) and the AMA came about due to a documentary film called “The Business of Being Born” by talk show host Ricki Lake, where she exposed the American system of birth as a business. Abby Epstein, the film’s director stated in the ABC story, “What the film has done is to cause a lot of women to choose midwives over OBs — especially younger women who’ve never heard of midwives,” said Epstein. “We’ve received calls from midwives saying that their practices have doubled since our film was released. There’s a lot of ego in this — that one would want to choose a midwife over an MD. It’s really a turf war going back 100 years between the medical establishment and midwives.  The trailer for the film can be seen on YouTube at the following address: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4DgLf8hHMgo