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The 134th Carnival of Homeschooling - The 12 Labors of Hercules


Carnival of Homeschooling

Welcome to the 134th Carnival of Homeschooling!  I am honored to be hosting the carnival a second time, and I want to extend my hearfelt thanks to the dozens of bloggers who submitted these incredibly interesting, challenging, and diverse posts for your reading pleasure.  So without further ado, let’s get on with the show!

Most people (and especially most homeschooling families) have at least a passing knowledge of the 12 labors that Hercules had to complete for Eurystheus.  I would propose that, as homeschoolers, we face a no less daunting set of tasks.

Hercules’ First Task:  Slay the Nemean lion, which no weapon can harm.

Wow, surely, that’s impossible!  Not to Hercules, who simply used the strengths he knew he possessed.  Often, being the best teacher requires us to do some hard work on ourselves first, to gain that perspective.

christinemoers suggests that homeschooling - indeed, parenting in general - requires this kind of tough introspection. Be sure to read What are you afraid of? posted at welcome to my brain . net.

Karen M Gibson suggests that we need to look at our deepest beliefs and motivations for our choices in Your Child Wants to Attend School – Now What? at Leaping From the Box.

Rachel Davis advises that we think about what “schooling” itself really mean - or should mean! - with Why Homeschooling isn’t Lacking in Education! posted at Holy Hillbilly Creations Blog-Where Fashion meets Modesty!.

Evie Maddox takes a look at our scheduling choices in Why Homeschool in Summer? posted at Stay At Home Child.

Dianne M. Buxton discusses How To Find Emotional Intelligence and Positive Thinking In the Ballet World [Ed. note: or anywhere!] at Ballet Shoes and Pointe Shoes.

Cristina encourages us to learn to let go, in Pushing Buttons posted at Home Spun Juggling.

ChristineMM challenges us to take a hard look at our standards, in Controversial Article About Homeschooler’s Abilities On My Mind posted at The Thinking Mother.

Hercules’ Second Task:  Slay the hydra.

The trouble with a hydra?  You cut off a head, and it just grows right back!  It’s more than one person can do!  Even Hercules called upon his nephew to help out with this task, cauterizing after each of his chops.  Sometimes we do need to reach out, and make use of other resources available to us, and other people’s strengths.

Carol Topp, CPA suggests that we band together to find stength as a coop, in The Homeschool Socialization Problem Solved posted at HomeschoolCPA - Homeschool Blogger.

Alasandra wants to help recognize and validate fellow homeschoolers! Check out The Graphics Winner posted at Alasandra’s Homeschool Blog Awards.

Need a pat on the back for your thrifty schooling choice?  Check out Back to School Shopping: The Homeschool Way from Penelope at The Cafe at the END of the Universe.

Kim Hutmacher talk about using the author to add a dimension to literature, in Making the Author Connection posted at Works in Progress.

David Cassell warns about the current problem with a GED Scam, at selectcoursesblog.com.

A couple of little math boosters from denise at Let’s Play Math!: Free Multiplication Bingo Game and the Crazy 4 Math Contest.

Need a unit study, Matey? Well then ye best hurry along to Little Blue School so’z Lydia can give ye a Treasure Island Homeschool Seminar: Literary Lesson Plans and Nautical Worksheets.

Want to know more about the brain? WAY more? Alvaro Fernandez presents Learning & the Brain: Resources for Educators posted at Sharp Brains.

Hercules’ Third Task:  Capture alive the stag with the horns of gold, sacred to Artemis.

As homeschoolers we learn that the most precious gifts are worth whatever time and effort they cost.  Hercules could have killed the deer easily, and soon - instead he had to follow it around for an entire year waiting for the moment to make the capture.

Thomas J. West advises musicians to “BE PATIENT!” in Music Practice Tips #2: Don’t Exceed Your Brain’s Speed Limit posted at Thomas J. West Music.

Silvia describes her 8 year old learning patience in Flying Success! posted at Po Moyemu–In My Opinion.

Hercules’ Fourth Task:  Capture an enormous boar.

Hey, this is number four in this vein already.  Hercules is an old hand, and the task is no big deal, right?  It’s the same with homeschooling, really.  At some point we’re all new at each thing we attempt - from homeschooling at all, to different curriculums, to teaching a new subject or age group.  But after a while you earn your stripes, and being to feel like you know what you’re doing.  (At least sometimes!)  And the veterans can share their wisdom with those who come after…

Lessa Scherrer aka Princess Mom presents Advice for Newbie Gifted Homeschoolers posted at Help! My Kids Are Smarter than Me!

Lori shares her experiences with newbies in What I Wish I Had Known at The Simple Life at Home.

14 year veteran Jena offers us Advice for First Year Homeschoolers, from Yarns of the Heart.

Katherine gives her review of a great resource for the preschool set: Kumon Workbooks, at No fighting, no biting!

Susan Gaissert advises letting young readers graze! Check out No Syllabus, No Problem posted at The Expanding Life.

Two terrific posts about kids learning to read from The Life Without School Blog: Laureen describes writing Upside Down and Backwards, and Jena offers her advice in Teaching a Child How to Read.

Hercules’ Fifth Task:  Clean the Augean stables.

What can I say, everyone knows that there’s always lots of, um, manure to deal with.

Military homeschoolers? Think layers and layers of it! Why Homeschool points to a great resource on the topic in Are you a military homeschooler.

Not so military? How about Government’s latest? Beverly’s Homeschooling Blog (About.com) wonders if the latest goings on there will have California Homeschool ISPs changing names?.

And a little dose of politics from Susan Ryan with Continuation of The Nerve and Isn’t there a law?? posted at Corn and Oil.

Indiana Jane’s Notebook and SpunkyHomeschool both discuss some of the religious controversies that are boiling within the homeschooling community in Ruminating on homeschooling, and Conventional Wisdom, respectively.

Hercules’ Sixth Task:  Drive away the multitude of Stymphalian birds.

One bird is nice, three birds can be lovely and musical.  A swarm of anything, though, is a problem.  And sometimes it really is the little things that make or break a situation.

NerdMom beautifully address an issue near and dear to my heart in The First Key to Homeschooling and Not Losing It over at Nerd Family.

Hercules’ Seventh Task:  Capture the “beautiful and savage” bull that Poseidon gave to Minos, King of Crete.

The tale concludes that Hercules “mastered” the bull, and took it back in a boat.  One of the things homeschoolers often celebrate is our freedom to master things “beautiful and savage” which are spurned by the public school system.

Teresa Wymore talks about the value of great literature (and don’t miss her insightful expose on public school teaching!) in harry potter and homeschool posted at Flesh & Spirit.

Erica Burgan presents Field Trip to the San Diego Zoo! [Ed. note: Need I say more, here?] posted at The Sojourner.

And speaking of the public school system, enjoy Kathy’s review of the book Schooled posted at Homeschoolbuzz.com Reviews.

Hercules’ Eighth Task:  Get the man-eating mares from from Diomedes, King of Thrace.

Let’s take a lesson from the idea that good ol’ Herc might have done this one differently.  Maybe sometimes you can do the most good by working with the system…

Barbara Frank tells us There is Hope with the story of an amazing High School student.

Hercules’ Ninth Task:  Get the girdle of Hippolyta, Queen of the Amazons.

Hercules teaches us an important lesson here.  Sometimes, all it takes to get what you want is to ask for it.  (Yes, I know his task doesn’t end that simply)

Hercules’ Tenth Task:  Get the cattle of Geryoh, a monster with three bodies.

Sometimes even the most arduous tasks have wonderful and unlooked-for benefits.  During this task, Hercules set the Pillars of Hercules in place.

Miss Amanda has some fabulous gifts posted in The Perfect Gifts for the Graduated SuperAngel at The Daily Planet

Studying Ancient History? Bored? Not likely if you listen to Mrs. C on Trojan Horse Craft posted at Homeschool and Etc..

Hercules’ Eleveth Task:  Bring back the golden apples of Hesperides.

How you feel about this task depends somewhat on a moral judgement - Hercules succeeded by tricking Atlas.  Ethics, morality, values…  It’s a big part of why many of us keep our kids home!

Living By Learning shares some insight about A Game Ethics Lesson from The Karate Kid at On Living By Learning.

Hercules’ Twelfth Task:  Capture Cerebrus alive.  And take him back!

When Hercules successfully brought Cerebrus back, Eurystheus wisely decided that he didn’t want it and ordered Hercules to take it back.  Clearly, the moral of this story is, “Be careful what you ask for - you just might get it.”

Such was my request to allow me to host the carnival this week.  Arrangements were made six months ago, when I hosted the Leaving a Legacy edition back in January.  Who could know that this week I would be layed low by medical problems, and even spend a day in the ER?  But in true heroic fashion… er, with the baby in one arm and the three-year-old climbing up my back…  We’re done!  :)

Thank you for reading…  Of course, please let me know if you find any errors or broken links!

Please take a moment to post a link to the carnival on your blog, as well as adding it to any social bookmarking sites you use (the “Share This” link, below, will make it easy for most of them!) — help spread the word about homeschooling, and the carnival, and send some traffic to all these terrific bloggers who took the time to share their lives with us.

Don’t forget to send in your post for next week’s carnival, as well, hosted at Consent Of The Governed!  Just click on over to the easy submision form at Blog Carnival anytime before Monday at 6pm Pacific.

Teens and Tots

Our family is featured on the home page of the Yahoo Group Teens and Tots!

Click over just to see a cute picture of me with Nick and Jewel (last summer at “The Home Place” at the Land Between the Lakes preserve in Tennessee), but if you find yourself with two distinct ages of kids you might want to check the group out, as well…   :)

Swap Meet: Girl Clothes

Sorting and unpacking revealed a treasure-trove of girl clothes I was saving for the next one…  But since I don’t think *he* will want them, I want to sell or trade them.  After posting to one group and contemplating posting to another, it occured to me that it would be far easier to post the info here and just refer to it from other places.

Soon-to-follow posts will include the gender-neutral and boy clothes R.T. is so speedily outgrowing.

I’ve photo’d them in size groupings, mostly (click thumbnail pics to see a larger view).  I’d love to get rid of whole chunks rather than piece by piece, but will take whatever I can get.  We can negotiate a price, and/or see my “ISO” list at the end.

Obviously, I can give you more details about anything, as needed.  :)

Thanks!

Cute winter things.  Snowsuit says 6-12 mos.  Reversible jacket has no tags - I want to say 2T?  Cute suede/furry boots (Ugg knock-off).
Girl Winter

Newborn:
Girl NB

12 mos.
Girl 12

18 mos.
Girl 18

Girl 18a

Girl 18b 

Girl 18c

24 mos./2T
Girl 2T
TAKEN:
Pink turtleneck

Girl 2Ta
TAKEN:
Black longsleeved dress
Blue longsleeved dress
Pink w/bows dress

Girl 2Tb

 Girl 2Td

TAKEN:
Sleeveless floral dress (top center)

Girl 2Te

3T
Girl 3T
TAKEN:
All 3 dresses

Shorts overalls with hat, 5; 2 pairs of pants, 6
Girl 5-6

Girly socks
Girl Socks

Shoes - new & like new - I got rid of the ones she actually wore…
Girl Shoes

In Search Of – Just a random list of things I’d be willing to trade for.  Try me on others!  ;)

  • Medium-long or Large Diapers, gender-neutral or boyish (fitteds, wool covers/shorties/etc.)
  • Cool diaper bag
  • Family cloth?
  • Modest swimwear / swimwear fabrics (lycra, Taslan (?), ??)
  • Wool for dipes (fresh or recycled)
  • Handcrafted gifts/toys/household goods
  • Modest apparel – clothing for a tall mama & girl (size 6-ish); papa & son (men’s L) and baby (12 mos. and up)
  • Modest apparel – fabric & patterns for the whole family
  • Fabric & notions
  • Snaps (ployacetyl resin (”plastic”), size 20)
  • Crochet supplies ? (we’re just learning)
  • Books (kids ages 0, 3, 14; Christian fiction)
  • Fun food stuff / kitchen stuff
  • Old-school homemaking stuff

Nick’s Birthday! (aka More Cake Decorating Adventures…)

Nick turned 14, and we haven’t really had a party, but…

We spread out the fun by allowing him to open one present each hour.

We took him to Cici’s for an all-you-can-eat pizza buffet, which is pretty much his idea of nirvana.

And Papa got up to his cake decorating tricks again.  I baked a cake using the same Wonder Woman cake pan we’d used for Jewel’s birthday cake, but he decorated it up as Nick’s bud, Wolverine!

Wonder Woman Cake   Wolverine Cake

Pretty clever guy, eh?  :)

It’s hard to believe Nick is 14 and starting High School…  Where does the time go?

Kangaroo Care

I just finished reading a book about tandem nursing (Adventures in Tandem Nursing: Breastfeeding During Pregnancy and Beyond), and although I would highly recommend it, after four months it didn’t really have a lot to say on the subject that was news to me.

I was fascinated to learn, however, that a mama kangaroo makes different milk in each teat!  She makes baby milk on one side for the tiny joey finishing his development in her pouch, and “toddler” milk on the other side for baby’s older sibling who will still stick his head in and nurse.  What a great trick!  Doesn’t God think up cool stuff?

And kangaroos have it down pat for carrying the kids around, of course.  We even name a parenting philosophy/practice after them: Kangaroo Care.

If you’d like to see some lovely photos of mamas in other cultures “wearing” their babies, check out this babywearing slideshow.

Sorry, but that’s all for today.  We’re all sick, so I’m even more behind than usual…  :)

Emergency Room: The Ongoing Saga (Chapter Four)

Hard to believe, isn’t it?  And I’m still just trying to catch up!

I went to the ER Thursday, April 24th when I woke up with chlls and fever (over 102) and an inflamed and swolen breast.  Yowch!  (This on top of the ongoing kidney/UTI situation).

I ended up being admitted to the hosptial, and stayed until Monday evening (who knew they would discharge someone after 7pm!). 

The whole thing was a nightmare of conflicting opinions, fighting for the right to nurse my baby, and uncommunicative doctors.  I think “An Open Letter to Homestead Hospital” will be appearing here soon…  It was really so frustrating that I’ve sort of tried not to think about about it.  But on the other hand, it’s just not going away.

I called my PCP for a follow-up appointment, and was told that I couldn’t get an appointment for months, but that I could come in as a walk-in.  She suggested coming on a Wed or Thurs, and coming early in the morning.  Great.

So I went in that Thursday, and was standing outside at 8:45 am (they open at 9).  That made me #4 in the walk-in line.  Which meant I got to see the doctor…  at 1 pm!  (Not, of course, that they told us that right away so we could go do something in the meantime.)

I got a referral to a Urologist, but just got the run-around from them regarding a referral for a lactation consultant, as well as getting the insurance to cover my medications. 

When I got hold of the Urologist they gave me, it turned out that they were pediatric only.  So I called the PCP back and got another name (after a big hassle).  When I got hold of that office, they said that they no longer take my insurance.  I called th PCP back (grrr!), and they said they would call the insurance for a current provider list and call me back.  Excuse me if I don’t hold my breath.

Frustrated (happens a lot lately, doesn’t it?), I called my insurance company.  They said that I could self-refer to a Urologist, and didn’t need a referral at all! 

So I started calling down the list of Urologists from the insurance company’s website, which they said was the most current list.  Pediatric only.  Doesn’t take that insurance any more.  We can see you at the end of June (that’s 2 months away at the time!).  Doesn’t take that insurance.  We can see you next year(!).  Phone disconnected.  And on and on…

After calling a dozen doctors (I kid you not), I found someone who could see me in two weeks, who was an hour’s drive from my house.  Not ideal, but sounded pretty good after I’d been worn down by all the others!

The insurance has a transportation benefit, so I figured I’d let them pay the gas to drive all the way up there.  Well, it turns out that they will drive the patient and one “escort” person.  If I bring the baby (which I obviously have to, for a trip that will easily be three hours), I then have to bring Nick or Wolf to hold R.T. while I’m with the doctor.  But they won’t allow 2 people to come… 

So we ended up driving after all.

At least we all really liked Dr. J.  He’s built like a football player, shaved bald head, and wore motorcycle boots under his scrubs!  And he was very nice and seemed very competent.

It seems that although the kidney stones aren’t causing any of ther own kinds of problems, they probably are responsible for the recurring UTIs.  As foreign bodies, they make a place where things can hide and grow in there…  Eeew!

So we scheduled an outpatient surgery for Lithotripsy - the ultrasound breaking up of kidney stones.  They can only do so much at a time (since it’s also hard on your surrounding healthy tissue), so he said we might need as many as three sessions to get the three stones taken care of.

We also scheduled another in-office procedure for further diagnosis, as well as treatment, of the recurring UTIs and the constant, but perhaps at this point self-perpetuating, symptoms.

Whew!

Obviously, there’s pelnty more to tell…   ;)

Jewel’s Birthday Party!

Last night we FINALLY had Jewel’s birthday party - I caved and did Chuck E.Cheese, since the weather is either too hot to bear and/or thunderstorms all the time. 

I hate that place - so noisy, so overpriced, bleah!  And the kids all go running off to play, so Jewel didn’t really spend time with them - although SHE was perfectly happy with it, as she also went running off to play (with Papa in tow).

Chuck E. Cheese’s

The party wasn’t everything I might have wanted, but with so much going on in my life right now between the baby and my medical stuff, I figure it’s okay for this time.  By next year we’ll be able to do something better, and she’ll be old enough to appreciate it more, anyway. 

We did a “Super Hero” theme (to include the boys), since Jewel is such a Wonder Woman fan.

The stars of the show were Jewel (in her “everyday” version of her WW costume), and the Wonder Woman cake we made for her:

Wonder Woman Cake

I saw this cake pan on Kristin’s Etsy site, Ropa Vieja, and knew we had to have it.  Later, in looking for decorating details from Wilton, I discovered that it originally came with a plastic face!  Off I went to eBay, and hunted one down with the face and original instruction booklet.  :)

Anyone want to buy an extra Wonder Woman cake pan?

So I got the pan, accumulated all the decorating equipment we needed, and laid all the plans.  But in the end, between R.T. and not feeling well, it was Wolf who stepped up and made her lovely.  What a guy!

Birthday Cake

Nick wants to invite three friends over and have a Rock Band party (the XBox 360 game) for his upcoming birthday.  I think I can handle that!  LOL

This morning Jewel’s enjoying playing with her Play Doh birthday gifts … who knew a 3 year-old could spend 5 hours doing something?!

Initiating Breastfeeding

I just watched the neatest video on YouTube, and I had to share it.

 No, it’s not the latest music video….  Or stupid pet tricks…  Or …  

 Actually, it was made by a governmental agency in India, with help from UNICEF and the WHO.  I’m a lot of fun at a party, eh?  ;)

It’s really, really amazing how God made us!

My philosophizing about why so few people would imagine that’s possible will have to wait for another day…

A Booty Sweater?!

Let me start off by saying that my local La Leche League leader is just really cool!  (Check out her website: Kristin Jayd - belly masks, organic produce, photography…).

She recycles old wool sweaters into the most gorgeous diaper covers…  She sells her “booty sweaters” on her Etsy site, Booty Boutique, but check out the one she made for RT (and his Papa, Wolf!):

Wolf Butt

(click for a bigger view)

Too cute, and SO soft!

On a side note about fabrics:  I always thought of wool as scratchy, but many wool fabrics are quite soft - apparently it depends on the sheep, how it’s spun, etc. 

And furthermore, I also always thought of wool as hot…  maybe that’s just because I’ve typically seen it in sweaters.  :)  Actually, as a breathable natural fiber, it keeps R.T.’s skin much cooler in our tropical weather than the modern “waterproof” fabric diaper stuff we have.

In case you missed it, I am now a huge fan of wool.  I tried raiding our local Goodwill for wool sweaters, to learn the “booty sweater” craft for myself, but I guess in this climate people just don’t have ‘em.

If you happen to be cleaning out your closet, remember us!

Emergency Room: The Ongoing Saga (Chapter Three)

Thursday (March 17) started out like any other day, and I had a long list of errands for the kids and I to accomplish…

I sat at the couch at the computer to check my email while I nursed R.T., and Jewel sat behind me and played with my hair.  Then Jewel screamed…

She had climbed up onto the arm of the couch, then fallen off into the narrow space between the couch an the end table (metal and glass, yikes!).

I quickly detached R.T. and laid him in a safe spot on the couch next to me, while calling Nick to come grab him.  Then I reached over to extricate Miss J from her landing place.

Although she was very upset, there was nothing obviously amiss.  She wasn’t bleeding, and all her parts seemed functional.  She said that she didn’t hit her head, and what hurt worst was her right arm (she seemed to indicate elbow).

I gave her some children’s Tylenol, then nursed her.  I became concerned when she sat up from laying in my lap, screamed, and clutched her right arm against her chest.

Watching her try to hold the arm still just really set off my “mom radar,” and I decided there was no harm in taking her in for an X-Ray.  Heck, we knew the pediatric ER was actually a pretty nice place!  :)

I called Wolf to let him know what we were up to.  We had to swing by Knaus Berry Farm anyway to drop off the sodas he was supposed to bring for a coworker’s birthday lunch, and I wasn’t too surprised to see him standing outside ready to go with us when we got there.  (Heck, when you start work at 5 am, by 11 you’re mostly done anyway!)

We made the now-familiar trek to the Homestead Hospital ER, and signed her in.  As before, we quickly received a private room in the “Speediatric” ward.  The nurse brought Jewel some liquid Motrin, as well as baby-strength Tylenol with Codeine!  Yikes!

They brought in the very cute giraffe-painted portable X-Ray machine.  The techno-geeks in Wolf and I were fascinated - it’s all DIGITAL!

But back to reality, where Jewel is screaming hysterically, and I’m being told to hold her arm “like this”…  :(

Then we waited.

And waited.

And waited.

Then, to our dismay, they wheeled the giraffe back in, declaring that they needed three views of the wrist specifically. 

These were even harder than the first set.

I’m surprised they could see anything, and the doc did indicate that they weren’t the clearest…

But they said she had a small fracture of the distal radius where it meets the wrist.  They fixed her up in a splint (cool piece that hardened after they conformed it to her body) wrapped with an Ace bandage.  We then had to follow up with the Orthopedic Surgeon.  (Luckily the insurance referrals and what-not were fairly simple.)

Jewel Splint

Lots of chewable Tylenol and Motrin to get us through until Monday (March 21)… 

The Orthopedic Surgeon was a great guy, and said he had a granddaughter Jewel’s age.

He X-Rayed her wrist, and after talking to us, her elbow.  By now she was calm, and this all went smoothly.

Guess what?  No break!

The doc said that in the ER they will always make the “better safe than sorry” call in that situation, and that the splint was actually probably great for the sprain/strain/contusions she did have.

So the splint is off, and she is much happier…

Just another week in our house.  Stay tuned, it keeps coming!